Lonelee, that's great that something that I realized is helping you! That's how this board works and I'm glad to contribute to it.

Initiating would be a 180 for me, but he's been sending out these very large stop signals, I think. As long as I stay light hearted and PMA, we're doing well. As soon as I make any moves towards him, he rapidly goes the other direction. Although I haven't done any initiation moves....maybe I will after I talk to my IC.

Thanks again!
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