Lonelee, that's great that something that I realized is helping you! That's how this board works and I'm glad to contribute to it.
Initiating would be a 180 for me, but he's been sending out these very large stop signals, I think. As long as I stay light hearted and PMA, we're doing well. As soon as I make any moves towards him, he rapidly goes the other direction. Although I haven't done any initiation moves....maybe I will after I talk to my IC.
Thanks again! E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out