The World is A-changin'

[Elly4]

Zephyr, this is a big issue that I am glad to talk about. I think it's a hard one on here for a lot of folks because they can't imagine our M history. I welcome the feedback as I really need help in this area. Is it painful to talk about? Yes, of course! But if I don't face my failures (and my successes as we had times over the years that we didn't think it would ever happen) how am I going to be able to fix my M. I worry that it's unfixable, but we all worry that.

Funny that you brought up asking me to marry him, as my IC brought up the same thing. I can't take the blame for the whole M as he knew, from 6 years experience, that it might never happen for us. But it has, and I would like to continue a relationship with intimacy with him.

But, if he's involved with the OW, even on an emotional level, I'm not sure now's the time to start. This is so complicated.

Thank you more than I can show for being forthright with me. I soo greatly appreciate it!