The issues I could think of right now, is that we didn't have enough time together/ we were so caught up with our little kids. Also I suspect H might be having issues with depression & alcohol, which might be making it even more difficult for him to have clear thinking.
H said he does not feel like working on our M right now, though he said he is confused and doesn't know what to do. (Thus he made no movement, not ending A, not moving out etc)
He is still in contact with OW, so there is no C mentioned yet...
