10 Months Later... XW Wants To Talk About Us?

[HPoirot]

Hello lost18, rd500, and SunnyB. I told STBX from the beginning I don't want her to be away from S12. If you read her proposal about how I could move to Florida, she mentioned looking for a job there herself. If that is not what she wants anymore, I would be willing to help pay for her visits.

So yes I can propose all these things to STBX and try to find a compromise (again).

Or I can take my case to the court and risk not winning.

Or I can just move and explain it the best I can to S12.

STBX would not be able to take care of S12 as she would like without me and my paycheck and my flexible schedule to support her.

Then there is the $1.2K I pay every month for tuition. More than I understand the court would give her for child support. Am I just to keep paying that when I would rather send him to another school?

Wouldn't I be backsliding by caving to this latest guilt trip letter?

And shouldn't I call her saying I'm leaving S12?