Thx Mahhty, I have to make an effort not to react, now that I know the situation it will be easier. I know this must be killing him considering how important sex is to him, I also worry that it may make it that much more difficult for reconciliation if he jumps to that side of the fence.
Hi RAI, I don't think there are any concerns for STDs. He may have had a brief PA last summer but I'm pretty certain there has been nothing physical since he's been home.
I've been a little frustrated with the whole situation for the past few days. I need to regroup and refocus on me. I have no patience and have to remember that I can only control me.
Quote:
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can and Wisdom to know the difference."
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since
