Yes, she said that she thinks we are too far apart in what we want and would waste time at a mediator or argue. We went to a family mediator to discuss kids time etc and that did not go well. She just vented the entire time. Even the mediator had to calm her down, tell her she was speaking with anger and spite and not being productive.
M: 48 W: 45 Married: 16 years D1-14, D2-11, D3-9 BD: May 29 She moved out 2 weeks later with kids Awaiting mediation