Want to see if anyone thinks this could be a bad idea. I just reached out to my ex GF. We've been broken up for over 7 years, were together for 5, and have seen each other at random places a few times since then and have been happy to see each other and fill each other in on family etc. We both live in the same town.
I have no feelings for her. She has no feelings for me. She's happily married with two little kids and has been with her husband since about six months after breaking up with me. As far as I can tell she loves her life. We had a lot of fun together but both realized that we didn't want to marry each other. All break ups have pain so we didn't speak for about two years, but there were no hard feelings.
She's agreed to have lunch with me, one to catch up on life, and two, because I've asked her to share what it was like to be in a relationship with me. What was hard, what were the easy parts. What advice would she give me as an ex?
My thought is that she's well far enough removed to be completely honest, and I could get some insight into what else to keep working on.
Bad idea? Not something to add into the mix with DB'ing?
Or go for it, STFU and listen with an open mind?
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M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
