So just as a very quick update for continuity from the last thread:
I filed for D, signed the papers and it was submitted into the county system today. I have not told the kids, I have not told WW about this yet, but I feel like this is the way for me to move forward. I believe that I have had increasing successes for myself while DB (no I did not save my marriage, and it is not what I thought I'd ever want or do, but I am a better person).


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015