Sigh. I'm still caught in the seemingly (to me only?) contradictory signals of WW. On the one hand, she's asking about the D procedures, because the ball is in my court.
On the other hand, she texts and emails me "funny stuff", like yesterday was a proof-reading of a letter from D7's camp (it was full of mistakes). Today, it's a few chosen quotes from her clients. I just don't know what to make of it or even how to react. .
Mozza, I'm going to make a confession here. I'm doing the same thing. Earlier this week, STBX drove S19 to college and he called me the next day as he drove back. We talked about S19's apartment, about his roommates, about a job interview I'd been on, about the new neighbors that moved in next door to me. And we talked about the consultation I'd had with a L, and about the documents we needed to start assembling. All in the same conversation.
So although I do see where you are coming from, I also see where your W is coming from. It's fine to feel whatever you feel, that's what's authentic for you, I'm just throwing out there that I don't see those things as contradictory. It's just all part of the relationship right now, one big package.