Duke -
Here's the thing. Your M was over at BD. So...legal separation, mediators, who cares? All that is is the legal way of doing what's already done.

As for this time, a month is truly NOTHING in DB land. Especially a month where she's on an EU vacation WITH the kids. She's not really missing anything right now. So I can't imagine another 10 days having an impact at this point.

So - what awesome things are you doing for Duke in the next 10 days?