My wife emailed me last night that she wants to go ahead with legal separation and through lawyers, not the mediation route. I was really hoping that the 30 days apart would give her time to reminisce and miss me and what we had. There still is 10 days before she gets back but she sure seems hell bent on legal separation. Any suggestions? I'm trying to be as positive as I can and with the kids when I Skype with them but this is so tough. I love my wife and family so much and would do anything for them.


M: 48
W: 45
Married: 16 years
D1-14, D2-11, D3-9
BD: May 29
She moved out 2 weeks later with kids
Awaiting mediation