The World is A-changin'

[lonelee]

OM Goodness ELLY4... you just helped me see the light...

{I noticed today that when he was quiet and thinking, I immediately jumped to he was upset at me, while in actuality he was digesting the testing and follow up from today. When I gave him the space, he started talking to me.

I wonder how many times in our M that he felt he couldn't be upset or worried because I would assume I screwed up...something to think about and bring up with my IC}



This is so me.. always concerned that I have done something wrong... could it possibly be that he can just be quiet and digesting something and it not have anything to do with me at all? This is definitely something I need to consider more and work on. Everything can't be my fault all the time, why do I try to take the blame or assume that I'm at fault.. is it a form of control, lack of self esteem, or childhood memory/trauma maybe???
hhmmm