I too had similar thoughts this morning at the end of my post so glad you went above and beyond. Here's what I said earlier.

I want to thank everyone in this forum from the newbie’s, to the vets and for the long timers because everyone has something to bring to the table and share. I read many situations that are similar to mine and very different from mine, from H or W, way wards or not, there is usually some very good advice that can be relatable to my current situation or something that I find to save in my back pocket for a rainy day … : )

I agree that there is a special bond here for us and I am so glad I found you all to share my story with. You all are appreciated. smile


Married 1991
D 32 GD 12
D 30 GD 3
S 29
M 58
S 57
1st bomb 2008
2nd bomb 4/2015 same person
New bomb 09/24
I fear those big words which make us so unhappy.