I found in my sitch W wanted all the cake .. not only her slice but mine too. You will see movement/reactions when these things do not come into play just as they plotted out in their WAS heads.
I have a bag full of these types of reactions ... W went out with OM on a weekend get-away, the following weekend I went out with a group of friends for dinner and drinks ... ofcourse you can not control who puts what on FB ... My phone blew up that night and the next morning about 'never taking W on a 'date' .... I never replied and the next day she called ... spewed ... and received a "Seriously?" along with a click from me.
PigPen posted a nice little phrase that really hit me today ... falls in line with this "No one has the same reality! Everything that is real to you could be completely different to someone else." I think the WAS really falls under this line of thought most of the time ... might help the LBS process a bit of the crazy we have been handed.
