have i been making mistakes too long part 4

[tkdmme]

Yes you are right. There are some good things happening.

Also, I have been feeling guilty for spending so much time on myself and being out of the house so much lately. When I am home with the W I have a hard time avoiding R talks. I feel guilty more so for not being home with my kids. We spend a lot of time together on the weekends but not so much during the week Do you see this as a problem?

I am trying to find the right balance. I don't like being home when she is there. Everything seems awkward and forced. By forced I mean our interactions in front of the kids are not genuine.

In the past she did most of the housework and I did all of the outside work. She did laundry most of the time and usually me and the W laundry was done together. I have noticed she throws my laundry in a different basket and does not include mine with hers anymore. This seems childish to me. I still do everything for her as far as keeping her car clean and maintained, yard work, anything that needs to be fixed. Its just weird that she hates me so much she doesn't even want our clothes to intermingle.