Glad to hear you are doing well. On the dating, it is a very confusing time & it is good you are taking it slow.
On the men & women consoling you: they are both right, and both wrong. You are free in one sense, but not in others. Yes, you will find someone if you choose to, but no that isn't your concern right now. You are finding you and what you want your life to be. That is what what is a good thing now, and you are doing it!
Keep sprouting!
Thanks for your reply. Yes, I am finding me. I don't want to be in a relationship until I know how to do it without losing me. But at the same time I miss having someone. Even if we were pretty distant from each other the past couple of years, just knowing he was there was enough. Now I feel like a huge piece is missing. Maybe I need to have that missing piece heal before I try filling it again. Because maybe the key isn't to fill a hole, but to not have a hole to fill in the first place. Feeling complete without being partnered. Boy do I have a long road ahead of me.
40s 2teens M14Y BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14 BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14 EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15 D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17
