I was just wondering if there was a way to counteract their influence. They are just trying to be supportive and loving of her. They are only getting her side of the story. I just feel as though they are giving her bad advice.
You received several responses to this question, and they were all in agreement that you should not interfere with her family. You are wanting to control what is said to her, and you can't do it. They have a right to say whatever they want to tell her.
You are still allowing your feelings to lead you. You don't really know what is being said to her. Even if you were advised to counteract their influence, how could you when you don't even know what's been said?
The point is to stop fretting over her friends and family and what they could be saying to influence her. Focus on you being a better man. That is the best prescription to counteract any bad influence. Let her see the actual proof in your actions.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
