I digress. so, may I ask you a question. Since before last November, were you two active at all or was the sex far and few between? Was this driven by both or did you feel that it just happened that way?
I am curious...your husband made a decision to marry you so many years ago, with full understanding of how things were back then. Had you ever been one to escalate and approach him for sex or was it always him that initiated? Has there been any complaints from husband on the frequency since your son was born? have you tried to initiate at all since November?
I just wonder if the sex situation has any impact on your current marital situation. it seams to play a huge roll in many of the men's minds around here, so I am curious how much of this could be contributing.