You know, RD, the only thing that really concerns me about your sich is that both you and W seem so...stuck. She certainly is, but you can't control that. And maybe you aren't actually stuck, you do seem to have made some wonderful changes in yourself as a result of all this. Still......
There's an upside to being "stuck", it allows us to take a breather and process all that's happened and what's to come. I lived in limbo myself a long time. I just urge you to pay attention to yourself and be true to RD. Everyone is always urging you for a little "adult GAL". That's for you. We care about you and want you to continue to grow, for yourself, no matter what W does.
We all want your W to come to her senses and work on this. And I admire your patience with her. Just don't lose yourself in the waiting.
