Ral,

You pose a very straightforward question. So why am I having so much difficulty answering it?

I'll give it a try.

I think it boils down to the fact that I still feel very taken advantage of and used. She is actively involved in an A. I am still paying for her every need. She is cake-eating to the max. I do not like the person she has become. I don't like doing things for her. Giving her the pictures would just be another capitulation.

In short, I just cannot seem to detach.

Any other thoughts?

RAI


Me 48 XW 45
lots o' kids
D April 2017