Journal Tried to engage my wife yesterday when she was very moody and she snapped. Told me to move out, I smiled and said no. Said she would, I asked her if she needed help packing. That wasn't nice on my part, but I'm not perfect. She then threatened to hit me so I told her threats are not acceptable anymore. Anyway, she took the kids to the beach and I stayed out all day. No calls, no text. Just went to my kids practice. We see each other there, she is visibly angry, the takes my other kid to the mall. She did pick up dinner though for the family. Had fun with the kids, pleasant to her, she was very moody. After dinner I change and tell her I'm going out for coffee. She freaks-"You always change your shirt when you go out for coffee? I'm going to put on a mini skirt and go out when you get back". I said fine, asked why she was yelling though. Anyway I went to sleep when I came back, she stayed home.
She told me to cancel dance classes today (we've been going once a week) as she'd rather stay in bed and have a headache. Really, she said she'd rather have a headache than take medicine. I told her I was going to learn to dance with or without her though it's fun when she comes. Asked her if I could do anything to make her day a little better, she said no, so I let her know I hope she feels better, and excused myself.
So why the roller coaster? This past Sunday, she tells me that this has been a great summer etc. Monday am - today, she's been miserable. Is it that I called her out on her inappropriate relationship last week (EA?, PA?, just inappropriate? who knows?). I do know that I can't be affected by her moods anymore because they are too volatile, but I have to remain engaged and supportive, which is pretty tough. Anyway, I am so glad I built my office earlier this year or I'd be sitting at the dining room table trying to work.
