I know how you feel about the little comments here and there. They add up over time. I think it is oaky to talk to her about how it makes you feel. I would suggest next time to not talk about it right after it happens. I would wait and bring it up at a time when you feel she will be more receptive.
Me: 30's W: 30's M: 12yrs EA: Started 3/2015 MC Started: 4/2015 She moved out and served 6/2015 PA: Confirmed 10/5/2015 2 young kids
"If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything."