10 Months Later... XW Wants To Talk About Us?

[HPoirot]

Here is what XW said back in April...

If you are in agreement with the following, perhaps we can make this work for all of us – especially our son. But more than anything, co-parenting requires talking and making joint decisions. If you don’t talk to me, I don’t see how this can ever work – especially long distance. To be honest, that is why I filed for custody in the way I did. I was so frustrated. I want to work with you as we raise our son and you just haven’t wanted to do that. It is ok to not want to talk to me – I get that. But we cannot co-parent and not talk.

If you want to co-parent and raise S12 together, I think we can do it. Here is what I propose:
· Shared custody both primary and legal.

· --S12 finishes 6th grade here and moves to Florida in 7th grade. We can make this a legal agreement HP.
· --For 6th grade, S12 remains here with me for the many reasons i have shared with you. He is not ready to move but I believe we could help him get ready if we do this in a slow and well thought out way. This will also give me time to look for work in the area and make a move there if I can find a job. Like you, I don’t want to be part time parent and not see my son often. If in the short term moving with you and finishing school there is best for him, I want to make that happen. But not so fast and definitely not without taking the time to find the best school for him.