10 Months Later... XW Wants To Talk About Us?

[HPoirot]

This is her email announcing she doesn't want me of S12 to go to Florida...

HP,

I have been wanting to write you for weeks now about your decision to relocate to Miami. I understand you will not be able to keep your job unless you move but I am baffled that you would ever consider taking a job that will take you away from S12. I realized that you want to do what's best for your career and clearly be able to provide for him, but I also know that given your skill set you can get a job anywhere in the world really. I know that our problems make it difficult for you to want to stay here. But I implore you to please reconsider your decision to move. I am NOT comfortable In any way shape or form with the thought of S12 living in Florida with you and me not being able to see him. I am sure that the thought of living in Florida and not seeing him everyday is deplorable to you as well... however you still are choosing to move to Florida and leave him here. I know that I have implied that at some point in the future I would consider allowing him to move to Florida. however the more and more I think about it I think that he needs to have both of his parents co-parenting together to raise him. I implore you to reconsider moving to Florida. Perhaps it is something you can do as he gets closer to Upper School. he has a great financial aid package that will take him to the next three years of his education which will be a huge financial savings for us. I think a move at this time for you given the debt that we have would be very unreasonable considering that in Florida he is highly unlikely to get financial aid and it would mean more tuition for us to pay. I know it's your life and I know it's your choice but I would beg you to really reconsider your decision to leave here. I am NOT seeing how a move for S12 even as early as 8 grade is likely given the nature of a our relationship, and our overall financial debt. the thought of not seeing my son or being able to drive to him is absolutely unacceptable to me and therefore I want to make it clear that the thought of him moving to Florida in middle school is not an option.. Therefore the earliest I would even remotely consider it would be for upper school and only if you and I are in a different place in our relationship and can communicate openly and freely and in loving way with S12.

HP I hope this makes sense to you and I pray with my soul that you will consider not moving to Florida, that you will stay and be a regular part of S12 life.

We should talk. Your move has many implications.