Need advice for a WW who left Part 3

[dwh15]

Then go for a variation on fins. You will need more than just a couple of weeks, you may need a pattern.
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If you are talking about the log history, I've got a solid 2 months right now, plus another 3-4 weeks spread out intermittently. Unfortunately, I was not very diligent at the beginning but have been solid as a rock since early July. Even if she were to file tomor, it would be another 3-4 weeks before we met with the court to decide temp custody, meaning I would have nearly 3 months of history showing WW only spending a few hours/week with 2 of the kids, and almost none with the others. Now, she always CLAIMS she wants more time and tries to blame me in every way possible for why she doesn't see them more but the reality is she simply chooses not to make it a priority in her life. I have certainly not stood in the way of any of the boys spending more time with mom.

I'm going to drop the subject of discussing custody for now and see if she brings it up again. In the mean time, I just keep logging every day. I've got quite a TM history between me and several family members as well, should it come to that, which would show the same sort of thoughts as what I post on this board. My attorney says the logs should be enough, and that they will also question not only me and WW, but each of the kids as well to determine reality. I have strongly encouraged each of my boys to do nothing but tell the truth about time with each of us. It's sad, but I just want what's best for them, and I think that right now, that means majority of their time with me. I hope for that to not always be the case, but until WW comes out of her fog and starts prioritizing kids over OM and her own needs, that is how I am going to proceed.