May your fantasies come true

[Ggrass]

Sorry kiddos, been busy sick and just plain tired.

It's winter here as some of you guys know and boy last year I only had the sniffles this year, I've been coughing and coughing it's terrible.

Yes Zelda it's quick, but bf lost his wife under very tragic circumstances and was a that point where he had been pusing to move forward. Moved States moved complete across the county. I was pushing to just go anywhere. Didn't particularly care just so long as things are better.

On the plus side he's wanting to meet you half way In lots of stuff. The job thing or lack of has started to resolve. As of yesterday he's been given an opportunity that might lead to regular work. He's stepping up as has been from the get go on stuff that is blokey round the house. Not to proud to cook or clean or take on menial work..

It's hard to explain the difference in personality from either xh. Neither was gentle and seems to resort to thumping (animals in both and humans as well with xh2) or yelling. Not so here. Generous and happy to share his $ or pay his share, which xh2 did but was unhappy about and resentful and let you know.
There's a dynamic of taking up each other's interests, with 0 resentment showing at this stage. We are both learning snowboarding which is very weird. He can laugh at him self and with you in a way that's not threatening.

All of that's more just feeling rather than any great action, more a lack of reaction and resentment. Let's hope this can covert over to something long term. Be is making plans to bring his family for a visit.