I'm envious - a WAW that relative to my W at least seems to be a pillar of reason.
My W isn't just in an A - it is true love according to her. They are planning a life together, well she is anyway.
Ahh, the siren song of a WW. Yes, true love it must be. My WW is on at least her 3rd A, and of course THIS one is true love. She has no doubts. Now let's forget that she had no doubts about the first two OM either, and for that matter, no doubts about me when we first married over 18 years ago. But no, THIS one is different. They've known each other a grand total of around 9 months, but no, this guy is DIFFERENT from all the others. You can't reason with them - logic makes no sense. Almost every A is going to burn out at some point. It's just a matter of when and what they do after the butterflies leave their stomach for good. The smart ones will recognize their mistake but many, like my own WW I believe, will convince themselves that maybe it wasn't true love after all, and go searching for the next fantasy. It's all very sad, but nothing much you can do about it until they realize that the problem lies in themselves and seek help to fix it.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
