I think those "little" things that bothered you from old marriage should be addressed as you are doing. Otherwise it could blow up or build resentment. Instead, sounds like you are handling it calmly.
Sounds good to me
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-