Reading CD no more and had an aha moment! Thinking back through all my threads I have "played" the victim! He did this and that to me he hurt me ect! Guess what I hurt him also I made bad decision also I constantly fixed things pushed for change ect!
Nice. Yes, there are some roles that we can fall into. Rescuer/abuser is one. Rescue someone, then feel angry they aren't appreciative or keep needing more help and start getting abusive towards them. It sounds like you are the silent sufferer, taking on incredibly hurtful treatment thinking you'll be loved for it, only to not get the love you want and in turn become witchy about it.
So glad you're still posting here. Your sitch is miserable and won't change overnight, but change is possible. Stay on the road!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
