Throwing in the Towel

[dwh15]

Thanks for posting your story. Sorry for you that it hasn't worked out how you hoped, but happy to hear that DBing helped you rebuild yourself. All of us reach a point where we've had enough, and only you can decide where that point lies. You've done your best, held in there for years, and I don't think anyone can blame you for not wanting to continue living this way. Best of luck in your new life, and I hope you end up being very happy, whether that involves your H or not.