Throwing in the Towel

[2Times2Many]

I do want to say this to others that are struggling to save their M. DB'ing does work. It's what I did ... GAL, focus on improving you, detach, stop focusing on your spouse and make a better you, build YOUR life. If I got anything positive out of H when he was last here it was that the change he saw in me is what caught his attention and made him want to come home, however brief that feeling was. (That gal is kinda down now, but I'll get her back!)

I asked him if he worried that he was making a mistake and he said he thought about that all the time ... that was his biggest fear ... that he would wake up and find he really screwed up and that someday he would want me back and I would be long gone.

So, they do have doubts about what they're doing. Keep DB'ing! It works. Unfortunately, I think (and I'd love to be wrong) my guy has just done so much damage that I may never be able to let him inside my walls. But don't let that deter YOU! Every situation is different. I wish each and every one of you awesome, positive results.