Crimson,
I've been thinking about your thread a lot lately and about your decision to write letters. Did you see any benefit in writing to her?

In my situation, I have fought myself or talked myself out of communicating to the X in this way. Even though a piece of me wants to.

Any insight to your situation and choice would be helpful.

Thanks.

Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015