Yes, daily log of time spent by each of us with kids. It's about 90-95% me at this point. So after that last post, I actually found out from S18 that WW called and spoke with an attorney for 10 minutes this afternoon AFTER we sent all those TMs about custody. Here I was feeling a little bad for her, like she actually missed the kids and wanted to spend more time with them. Now I feel the whole thing was a setup to try and get me to agree to sign something. I feel so betrayed. Needless to say, I won't be signing a thing before my own attorney reviews and approves. I feel like I can't trust a word WW says anymore. I know that's par for the course for a wayward - believe none of what they say. But it hurts to realize how badly my own W has turned on the man she committed to love and cherish.
So I may sit down and discuss custody with her but I'm not signing a thing and I don't plan on giving her any more money either. I had started to feel bad about the kids and was going to try and help with meals. Now I think she would probably just use it to hire her own attorney and quickly file. I want to be fair and would love for the kids to actually spend more time with mom, but it's reached a point I don't dare trust her with anything. As time goes on, I'm actually starting to not like my own W, let alone love her. Detaching is becoming much easier with these revelations but I am starting to seriously doubt I will ever want to reconcile once we get a few more months into this process.
Me 47 W 42 T 24 yrs M 18 yrs W living with OM BD1: 3/7/2015 (A with OM#1) BD2: 4/11/2015 (A with OM#2, W moves out) WW filed for D, papers received 9/18/2015. Meeting to determine child custody 9/29/2015.
