Good job. I've found I have to have some realizations a number of times before I finally really realize it. And sometimes you have to sit with some changes before you realize, Oh, there is still X & Y & Z that I'm doing that I probably shouldn't or probably should evaluate. And sometimes it is that the other person had to draw our attention (intentionally or not) to something by making it painful enough that we couldn't stop looking at it.

You're doing well.

Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15