It was also about trying to cut through the stuff he is saying that is not accurate/the rewriting of marital history by throwing in some corrections or truths.
I have not been able to hold my tongue on that, either. It really got to me when H dismissed my caretaking for 10 years of his kids and mother.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17