At some point you're going to have to talk to your W about the kids. Are you prepared for that? you could always start softening things by asking your W how the kids are doing.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER