We were actually separated for more than that. It was around the 3 year mark that my W started showing positive changes.
My W had an EA with her boss who was old enough to be her father and looked like her grandfather so I was in a tough situation. It wasn't like she could easily leave and not see him.
So in my situation, I decided to not concentrate on the A. I didn't 'wait' to see if it would die. I just lived, did my own thing and became the best dad around. Only you can determine how long you want to wait.
That's incredible. You must have a will of steel. Do you think having kids was what kept you in it Mr. Bond?
Sorry to hijack the thread.
M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17
