So wife left me for the AP. She asked if she could have an open marriage in order to be with the AP. I said no, I am not comfortable with this, we have never discussed this before, so no, I am not comfortable.
She continued it to a PA. I then told her that one of us would have to leave our marital house, she chose to leave.
So, in my mind, that is her choice, she knew my boundry and did her thing knowing it would be the end of our marriage.
Awful situation but most of the advice on the board has been to wait it out until the A cools off. D papers have been filed, lawyer called and will have some stipulations for me to review next week.
I don't want this divorce, but see no other way out as this is her wish.
Your suggestion? Let her go? or Fight the D and stand for the marriage.
