Today was my S first day of school and my H did not come. He said he didn't want to ruin my time dropping him off. Regardless of our irritations it makes me more upset he is missing important parts of his S life.
OW is toxic to your son and probably to your husband.
In some states drug laws allow the government to seize the assets of the criminals. Between that and the legal fees lawyers charge if your husband is in the wrong place at the wrong, they could seize his/your assets. I am not trying to scare you but it seem like all down side and no up side for you. Maybe you should consider separating your assets.
Trying to set boundaries, but he doesn't seem to understand. Both his mom and our marriage counselor said it's way too soon for our S to be around OW way way too soon. He isn't getting it.
I talked to my attorney yesterday and informed her of my concerns and she didn't give me any direction for that. I live in California. She actually advised to not file anything right now and just collect information. Said she sees too many cases file and dismiss for situations like this and its like a MLC. She said to just keep the Physical separation and set the boundaries.
