Originally Posted By: Elly4
I too have a hard time with our sitch. We have been living together for a total of 24 years. I ask myself that frequently. How does one leave after that much time and not even try to fix it. But then to be fair, did he try for years and I didn't see it? It's a shame that it takes a BD to wake us up.



E, sorry to hear that OW was in your home. I know how painful that is.

I agree so much about how bad it is that it took BD to wake us up. My H and I are having talks that should have happened years ago, but in his mind too late. So much regret that I didn't make changes sooner.

Take care!


Me: 42 H: 40
M: 12
H moved out - 8/2015
I filed - 8/2015