Were you separated for 3 years? Wow. That must have been very very hard.
My question to you then is this - should I try and stall things out with my W in the D process, in the hopes that once her A is over she will be in a differen head space? I know I have pondered that for a loooonnnggg time but I am so unsure. She seems to determined to flush our marriage.
I am trying to focus on one day at the time, get my life in order and take care of ME and kids. She is on her own to figure out he stuff.
