Summer of Growth and Acceptance - Part 2

[Painter]

I was reading your post while trying to figure out which DB-method you were following here, but couldn't make it fit... Yeah, not exactly textbook.

I'm not sure about what the purpose was, though. It sounds in a way like you summed up that your M was not good, that you were not happy, even from early on. If you're trying to get him to reconsider D, I'm not sure that's the way to go? I'm afraid he will hear this as criticism, the way men usually hear women when they open up about their hurt feelings.