ILYNOT,

I am sorry that even though you are physically separated from each other you still hear what she is up to, I would only imagine that it takes strength for you to dismiss the thoughts that come with it.

I am trying my hardest to just detach and let her go. She didn't come home last night, text me that she was staying at her girlfriend's house and that she was going out (this was at 2am). I simply wrote back "Enjoy, and thank you"

Today I feel a bit indifferent to this, and I hope it continues, but we all know that this is a great rollercoaster ride.

I read in your thread that things are looking positive for you, that makes me very happy to read. Keep it up my friend!


M: 34 W: 33
S: 7
S: 14 months
BD: 6/2015
Separation: 6/2015
Back and Forth between Home and Moms