I feel your pain, my wife did something similar a long time ago and in our current situation I dread the day I hear those words again, but I expect them. I know that for me that isn't the end, I love my wife, and I committed a lot of disrespectful things in the beginning of our 10 years.
As everyone has been advising you, take your time, heal yourself, focus on you, and don't worry about what this means right now, give time to time, and see if things change for the better.
I am rooting for you, and think you are a good man for the things you do for the woman you love. Stay the course of finding what makes you happy.
God Bless.
M: 34 W: 33 S: 7 S: 14 months BD: 6/2015 Separation: 6/2015 Back and Forth between Home and Moms
