As far as goals, I just want to be a better person. I want to be a better father, and ultimately I want to put my family back together.
This is all way too general. What does "be a better person" mean? How are you going to KNOW if you have achieved it?
In DR, MWD talks about golfers aiming for the hole. You dont aim at the hole, you aim at a spot 3 feet away and know that if you hit that spot it's going to go in.
So your ultimate goals, be a better dad, be a better person, etc are fine to be "the hole". But you need to better define that path.
For example - a better person maybe to you means more friendly. So you want to try to start conversations with people at work, say hi to people as you walk by them, engage with your kids about things, etc. Or maybe more generous, so you tip better, or volunteer at a local food shelter. And so on.
As Cali said, make list(s) and define what you want and how youll know if you achieved it.
