We have been informally takeoff care of kids and insurance for them etc.... The stipulations will formalize those arrangements
1 50 50 on kids legal and physical 2. Who claims which child of taxes 3. Who claims which child on insurance 4. One can't take the children out of the city without written permission
And a few other similar items. You may remember that W threatened constantly and filed to have kids 100% of time both legally and physically.
Once stipulated these items are nailed down and she can't change her mind when we get down to the really hard decisions. L said many people do that - reneg on items already agreed on if they get angry or upset on another issue.
