Doesn't change your approach D, other than think of this a bit more as a co-parent. The kids will be much better off if you stay close distance wise. Otherwise, it disrupts their activities (sports, band, clubs, or just hanging with friends). It is like multi-tasking: one eye on your M & one on the sitch for the kids.

In fact in D negotiations, I'd be pushing for some kind of clause limiting distance for the kids sake, but that may not be realistic with career needs etc.



Edit - Please start a new thread - Cadet

Last edited by Cadet; 08/19/15 05:22 PM. Reason: message
Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15