I don't know how I can realistically do this. W was everything to me - so obviously co dependant is an issue I am dealing with.

Why on earth would she choose this? Have I gone crazy trying to make sense of this?

Do I contiue to try to reason with her - I suspect not. For the past few months it has only been the bare minimum of communicating.

I feel like just giving her what she wants - acceptance will release the pain and confusion?



This situation has been on her timetable not mine. The endless and total desire to divorce has been unyielding.

Insights I have learned have been very valuable. Those insights I would have only gained through this process. I am stronger yet feel so cheated.

Caliguy or Wonka or Asitis?

Anything else I can/should do at this point? Should I suggest co parenting counseling? Just accept this and carry on?


Last edited by HeavyD; 08/19/15 01:45 PM.
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