Hi Becky, I would see how that one unfolds perhaps. If he suggests coming over at a time you could naturally be around, then by all means - as long as you can 'pull it off' as Py suggests.
Also, haven't read your whole sitch, but it depends on whether you are happy with him being in your house alone to take stuff. If you aren't and don't want to be around, perhaps a good friend could help?
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