Really nervous

[beckyb]

I've been away from my house for 2 1/2 weeks waiting for H to move out. Yesterday he move his furniture into his new apartment and I'm going back home this evening. I'm very nervous. He is really gone now. He's already told me he didn't have time to take everything (which is baloney) so I don't know what I'll find. I've gone dark so I haven't asked him what he took and what he left. I've only given short replies to his texts.

I'm changing the locks on Saturday so he can't just pop in. Normally he wouldn't do that but I don't know this man anymore.

So when he finally does want to come and get the rest of his stuff should I be there so he can see that I'm losing weight, looking better and GAL? Or should I try not to be there?